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Brainstorming 2015’s Resolution

Creating a New Year’s Resolution is one of my favorite things to do, even though I’ve never really carried out my resolutions until this year when I fought back against GMOs, toxic foods, and industrial-type farmed foods coming into my house. This year was so successfully that I’m finding myself getting really carried away with my thoughts for 2015. There’s SO MUCH I want to do to better our lives and keep on our track to self-sufficiency. I thought it might be fun to brain-dump potential goals here so I can sort them out and settle on just one or two big things. It’s so much better for me to focus than to overwhelm myself with trying to accomplish too much!

Here are some of my thoughts…

  1. Financial Health is a big one. There are so, so many things that could go into it. We could figure out ways to reduce our bills, like reducing our garbage pick-ups to once a month. But that involves making less waste, which could be a year-long goal all by itself. And of course there’s simply creating a budget and getting used to it, which could also take a year and would be a great resolution (we recently purchased the You Need a Budget software and I’d like to write about it as soon as we get it really set up). I’m lacking clear focus with this resolution, so I feel like it could easily overwhelm me. Still, it’s very important that we address some of the sub-goals I’ve thought up.
  2. Oral health is something on my mind a lot too. Having just finished the book Cure Tooth Decay, oral health is at the forefront of my mind right now. And if I was really sneaky, I could still fit this under financial health (healthier teeth = less visits to the dentist = lower healthcare costs) but even oral health in itself could have a lot of sub-resolutions. I’ll write about this more in my book review, but the book recommends both diet and hygiene changes that would be great focuses for 2015. And they’re just outside the norm that I feel it would be a more challenging resolution than growing more food. But on another level it doesn’t feel like… enough.
  3. Growing more food. According to my self-sustaining goal phases, this is to be my focus for 2015. There’s a whole bunch of sub-resolutions that could come into play here as well, but I think it’d be easier to break them up into smaller monthly goals (planning in January, starting seeds in Feb, adding to our garden infras     tructure in March, planting outside in April, etc). Accomplishing something each month would be a great motivator, too. I could totally fit this in with financial health (growing our food saves money!) but then I run into the problem of overwhelming myself again. I only stray from making this my official resolution because I know it’s something I’m going to do anyway and I’d almost like for my resolution to be less… predictable? Less of something that I know I’ll already do. Something that will challenge me.
  4. Then I get distracted by the idea of smaller monthly goals and want to do a whole bunch of smaller things: find out how to recycle more things, practice meditation, start reading before bed inside of watching tv, way less screen time in general, institue a family-wide bedtime routine (where we all brush our teeth and everything at about the same time in the evening, even if we don’t go to bed afterward, because there are things we should be doing at night that we rush through because we’re tired and just want to go to bed. Case in point, to continue my tangent: Mr. Handsome got me an oral irrigator for Christmas which I’m so excited about because it’s one of the things I want to try from Cure Tooth Decay, but I haven’t used it yet and yes that was a week ago! But every night I go to get it started and I’m too sleepy to want to really figure it out so I go to bed. Bad!). I know that if I had smaller goals I’d stay interested, feel accomplished, and get to work on a variety of things. It’d be hard picking goals for later in the year though, because I’d want to get to them now!

So as I look over this list I don’t know which one to pick. I think that due to the success of this year’s resolution I have put too much stock in coming up with a good one for 2015.  I just want to learn as much in 2015 about something as I did with food this year! I’ll keep thinking about it tonight – I’ll have plenty of time since we’re staying up late!

Happy New Year!

The HOW (and the when)

Okay, after a couple days of updates and a break for Father’s Day, I’m back to the goal stuff.

The What and Why have been documented, and we know Who is doing this (me and my family!) and Where (at home and in our community) – all that is left is the How.

How am I going to be more productive and consume less?

The answer is… I have no idea! I’m new at this. I guess I’ll be finding out as I go? Well, that’s not entirely true, I have some ideas. Have I mentioned toothpaste?

But really, though, how do I produce more than I consume? I think I should start by being mindful, and encouraging mindfulness in my family. By mindful I mean that I should start looking at everything like I’ve been looking at toothpaste. I want to ask questions – What is this? What’s in it? How are the ingredients made? Where does it come from? Who created this?

Of course, I have to figure out how to encourage these questions from my family without being annoying. I have been kind of annoying to them lately. I mentioned that I’ve started changing our diet already. Well, I did some things kind of fast. No more white bread or white pasta – when enriched flour foods were gone I replaced them with whole wheat or I banned them (still trying to keep the Little Debbie-like shit from coming in my house but that’s a separate fight, and at least one that I don’t have to have often). No more Jello (I make some using fresh juice and grass-fed gelatin now). I added lots of veggies – veggies at every meal when before we had them only a couple times a week. Way less pasta – once a week for dinner and that’s it (and now it is only half the dinner instead of the whole thing). And the biggest one (but honestly seemed the easiest to implement when it was all said and done) – no more sugary cereals AND cereal is now just a “lazy day” breakfast. We now eat home-cooked breakfasts at least five days a week or more. Kiddo1 had cereal this morning (first day of summer!) for the first time in weeks. Trader Joe’s O’s, plain, with raw milk. Oh yes, our milk went from convention to organic to raw pretty quickly.

That’s not the annoying part. I’ve been telling them why I switch things when they ask, and how much bad stuff is in some of the things we’ve been eating. I try not to lay it on thick, I really do, but sometimes I get away from myself! I have also not allowed them much of a transition. I am trying not to swap out the whole pantry at once, but I will change the bread they get overnight. One day it was white, the next is was wheat and no matter how much they protested I did not go back. They’re actually lucky on this one – I’m still buying bread but I would like to do away with it all together. More on this later; it’s more complex than it sounds.

So I am not shy to tell them what they’ve been eating sucks and I’m not slow to take it away. I’m a “yank the band-aid off while they’re distracted” kind of nurse I guess.

I digress! Mindfulness! That’s all I’m trying to get at here. I need better ways to encourage mindfulness in my family, and I’m not sure what those are yet, but I know being more aware of what we’re eating and what we’re buying is going to be helpful.

Step 2… I also want to read whatever I can. Reading books and articles about what I’m doing helps. Reading will be a way for me to broaden my scope and skills. I’ve read a couple homemaking-related books since I started writing again last week (I’ve been sick, lots of time to lay around and read) and I’ll write reviews of those soon. I want to research homemaking, the art of domesticity, etc. I want to learn all those things our grandmothers knew – how to sew, how to clean, how to use all parts of a cow, how to raise chickens and garden year-round, etc.

Step 3… Community (this is the hardest one for me!). I need to get out of my house and find other people who feel the same way. I’d love to take a gardening class or find a mentor that will help me learn. I want to meet a local farmer that I can buy meat from today but maybe trade for meat when I have something of value. I want to meet folks who tinker with cars and would do anything for a few jars of the jam I make every year.

I’m sure there are more steps. Learn to try things without fear of failure. Find the extraordinary in the ordinary. Meditate. Turn off the TV more, put down my phone more. Talk about my goal with others. Write about my goal 2 or 3 or 5 or whatever times a week.

I think I really will be find out how to do this as I go. I’ll be sure to write it down though.

 

Oh wait! The When! I left out one question – when. I’ve actually been thinking about this one a lot this week.

Obviously I’m starting now, or I’ve already started I guess, but when am I done? Better yet, because I know I’ll never be “done,” when is my target to have the production-to-consumption scale emphatically tilted to producing?

I’ve been thinking about 9 years, mostly because of my blog’s namesake. Well I called this blog 9 years later because I started it to document my second pregnancy, which occurred 9 years after my first pregnancy. So, you know, gotta follow that up with something equally epic (which is impossible, I know, as nothing is as grand as having a child). Plus, this is, like, a really big goal. I’m talking Make. All. My. Shit. (Hahahaha – so I’m proofreading and just now realize how funny that last sentence sounds. So I can’t remove it.)

9 years from now I want to have the skills that will enable my family and me to be free. Free to live anywhere we want – stay in our current house and build on, or maybe move to a farm, move to another country if we felt like it. I want to be free to decide whether or not I will continue with conventional employment. Free to make decisions about our future that are not hindered by questions like where will our food come from and where will we buy X, because those things won’t be major players in the decisions any more.

I know it sounds like a lot. I know it is a really lofty goal. I know it could fall apart at any moment! There will be successes, there will be failures. I’ll probably give up from time to time, but that’s why the blog is here! Oh dear blog, please keep me motivated by making me accountable. I can’t promise to post my progress and not follow through, right? We’ll see.